Navigating the waters of personal finance can be daunting at the best of times. But what happens when life throws you into the deep end, unexpectedly? For many women like myself, the journey to financial independence began at a crossroads—a divorce, a loss, or a sudden shift that forced us to take the helm of our family finances when we least expected it.
Sink or swim, baby
I still remember it vividly. At 28, a divorcee with two young children, I found myself in uncharted territory. My first husband had kept me in the dark about our financial situation. I was clueless, with no credit history to my name and a bank account linked to my mother's just to get by. Paying for everything with cash became a daily ritual for over a year, as I grappled with the harsh reality of starting over.
But adversity has a way of awakening resilience. Attending personal finance classes became my lifeline. It was there that I learned not just how to balance a budget or pay off debt, but how to reclaim my financial literacy and chart a new course for myself and my children. Armed with newfound knowledge and a determination to thrive, I embarked on a journey of self-discovery—one that would redefine my relationship with money and empower me to help others facing similar challenges.
It's not just the numbers
Today, as a prosperity coach, I’m passionate about supporting women who find themselves in the same uncertain waters I once navigated. I understand the psychological barriers—the self-doubt, the fear of numbers—that can paralyse us when faced with financial responsibilities alone. More than that, I’m here to be the person you can ask your "stupid questions" to, to cheer you on as you conquer the administrative tasks of running a household budget, and to celebrate your victories, big and small.
Taking charge of family finances isn’t just about crunching numbers; it’s about reclaiming your autonomy and shaping your future with confidence. Together, we’ll tackle the practical challenges: creating a budget that works for your new reality, strategising to pay off debt, and setting achievable financial goals. But beyond spreadsheets and calculators, we’ll address the emotional journey too—the belief that you’re incapable or inadequate with money. Spoiler alert: you’re not.
Personal finance is for everyone, regardless of background or experience. It’s about knowing where you stand, having the tools to make informed decisions, and having the courage to rewrite your life’s trajectory. True freedom isn’t just financial—it’s the liberation that comes from understanding your own worth and capability.
So, to all the women out there facing a new chapter in their financial journey, remember this: you have the power within you to shape your financial future. Embrace the challenges, embrace the learning curve, and above all, embrace your ability to thrive.